Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?

By Pat Law • Oct 26th, 2009 • Category: The Design Diva

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  1. siren on October 26th, 2009 at 9:06 am:

    Nope.

    If that happens, you don’t love them. You love yourself more. And that’s still one person only right?

  2. cyn on October 26th, 2009 at 10:39 am:

    I wanted to say, it’s impossible to love 2 person at a time, but it’s possible to like 2 or more person at a time.
    Maybe u think u love another woman as well, but in fact it’s that u THINK u love her but actually it may just be another infatuation or lust driven ‘love’…
    But if it’s the common love thing then its ok to love many. Like love ur mom, and dad etc u noe.

  3. stranger on October 27th, 2009 at 5:16 am:

    I don’t trust the word “love”.

    I think it’s been bandied about too much by *ahem* spin docs and well, you get the idea.

    I still prefer the notion of “partner”. “Love” is, I think, rather superfluous a term. And I think it results in more than its fair share of breakups in the form of “You don’t love me for who I am” and all that sort of shit because relationships always change people.

    That said, “love at first sight” is possible if interpreted as “attraction”. Attraction is always a starting point. Where that lasts, however, as like in a partnership, is different.

  4. Laremy on October 27th, 2009 at 2:19 pm:

    Coincidentally, I’m writing a short story about this topic cos it’s something I’ve been thinking about for the last year or so. I’ll mail you a copy of it when I’m done :)

  5. K on November 2nd, 2009 at 7:30 pm:

    “love” is a word thrown around by people carelessly these days. Like even when you’re just friends, people go “love you!” at the end of the day/sms.

    And like cny said, when you think you’re in love with the person, how can you be sure it’s love, and not just an infatuation?

    A sad and painful lesson my ex and I learnt, when she felt that it might be just be infatuation for her. On my part, I’m still not over her. So what does that come under?

  6. K on November 2nd, 2009 at 7:31 pm:

    so sorry, it’s cyn, not cny. sorry cyn!

  7. Nat Jioe on December 1st, 2009 at 11:37 am:

    love is a boastful word, originally created to sell nylons.

  8. mabel on December 20th, 2009 at 2:13 pm:

    for real? the current percentage stands at 61% for yes.
    this scares me so much.
    am i that naive?

  9. elleam on February 22nd, 2010 at 8:43 am:

    for me it's quite unbelievable because if you love someone you are very much contented to her.
    but unfortunatel it happened to me.. he loved me yet he loved another woman not considering the time we've been together..
    he can't even choose from the both of us..because the two of us is important to him..
    is it really true? u have just knew the person and engage in a month long relatioship yet you can say that you're love for them is equal though you're first gf stayed for almost a year?
    what made that possible?

  10. Rebecca on February 28th, 2010 at 1:20 pm:

    After 11 years of being with a man I love dearly, thinking and believing he loved me, but come to find out my 47 years old husband fell in love with a 18 years old that shared common interests and talked for only 1 month, I dont know what to do now, should I stay and try to repair what is broken or should I step aside until he choices what woman he wants to be with, after all you can't help you love but if you already love someone after all these years it shouldn't be that hard to choice but he misses the other woman

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